I was asked, “What duty does a man have to his parents after he’s married? How can he honor his parents without neglecting his wife?”
I’ve been thinking a lot about this question, both in relationship to my now elderly parents, and to my children, eight of whom are now adults.
Here’s my first stab at an answer:
A son can honor his parents after marriage in many ways, but always within the proper order of priorities—his wife and children come first. That being said, here are some ways he can uphold the Fourth Commandment while maintaining his primary duty to his own household:
Does the Context of John 6 Support the Claim that the Eucharist Was Symbolic?
Danny over at Twitter made the following claim:
If you didn’t ignore the context of John 6, you’d understand Jesus was speaking spiritually and metaphorically.
I respond:
… Read the restDanny’s claim that John 6 is symbolic or metaphorical is common among Protestants, but let’s unpack it with some Scripture and logic. First, the heart of the debate is John 6:51-58, where Jesus says things like, “I am the living bread that came down from heaven… the bread that I will give for the life of the world is my flesh,” and “Whoever feeds on my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life.” Danny argues this should be taken metaphorically, but does that really hold up when we look at the context?
1. Jesus’ Audience Took Him Literally Notice how the Jews react in John 6:52: “How can this man give us his flesh to eat?” They clearly took Him literally. If Jesus was just speaking symbolically, He could’ve clarified. Instead, He doubles down, getting even more graphic by saying, “My flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink” (John 6:55). In fact, when His own disciples grumble in verse 60, “This is a hard saying; who can listen to it?” Jesus doesn’t backtrack. He doesn’t say, “Wait, guys, I meant this symbolically!” He lets them walk away. If His message was just symbolic, why didn’t He clarify? Instead, He challenges them even more!
2. “Spirit and Life” Doesn’t Mean “Symbolic” Danny might point to John 6:63, where Jesus says,
Is Praying to Mary a Problem?
Over on Twitter a protestant asks:
… Read the restI keep seeing many say something like the following, “we are just asking them to pray for us, we are not praying directly to them.” Ok, I get that, but how does it accord with a prayer like this Fatima one? It seems to go far further than just asking for Mary to pray to God for us: “O Immaculate Heart of Mary, Queen of Heaven and Earth, and the tender Mother of men, In accordance with your ardent wish made known at Fatima, I consecrate to your Immaculate Heart myself, my brethren, my country, and the whole human race. Reign over us, Most Holy Mother of God, and teach us how to make the Heart of your Son, Our Lord Jesus Christ, reign and triumph in us even as It has reigned and triumphed in you. “Reign over us, dearest Mother, that we may be yours in prosperity and in adversity; in joy and in sorrow; in health and in sickness; in life and in death. O most compassionate Heart of Mary, Queen of Virgins, watch over our minds and our hearts and preserve them from the deluge of impurity which you did lament so sorrowfully at Fatima. We want to atone for the many sins committed against Jesus and you. We want to call down upon our country and the whole world the peace of God in justice and charity. Therefore, we now promise to imitate your virtues by the practice
What about the SSPX?
I get a lot of questions about the Society of Saint Pius the Tenth (SSPX), from well-meaning Catholics. The bottom line about the SSPX is this:
- They are a fraternity of Catholic priests in communion with Pope Francis
- Their orders are valid.
- Their liturgies satisfy your Sunday obligation
- Their sacraments are valid.
Some lay faithful have the desire to dig more deeply into the matter and/or have been misled by enemies of Tradition on one or more of the aformentioned facts. For those who want to learn more about the details, I’m providing some very brief resources below.
Canon Law
Can. 1248 §1. A person who assists at a Mass celebrated anywhere in a Catholic rite either on the feast day itself or in the evening of the preceding day satisfies the obligation of participating in the Mass.
http://www.vatican.va/archive/cod-iuris-canonici/eng/documents/cic_lib4-cann1244-1253_en.html
Excommunication of the SSPX Bishops Lifted
http://w2.vatican.va/content/benedict-xvi/en/apost_letters/documents/hf_ben-xvi_apl_20090702_ecclesiae-unitatem.html
The Canonical Mission of the SSPX
Pope Francis personally granted the SSPX authority to ordain and discipline priests without needing permission of the local ordinary. He named Bishop Fellay named Canonical Minister of the First Instance, and then of the Second Instance also
https://www.catholicculture.org/news/headlines/index.cfm?storyid=31663
https://rorate-caeli.blogspot.com/2017/05/for-record-rome-has-given-sspx-right-to.html
Bishop Fellay given a canonical ministry with authority to discipline clerics.
https://rorate-caeli.blogspot.com/2015/06/for-record-ecclesia-dei-secretary.html
Permission to Ordain Priests
Pope Francis has authorized the SSPX to continue legally and licitly ordaining Priests, even without requesting permission from local Bishops (which, in some cases, they do anyway, and they always respect the Bishops, the Shepherds of the Church).
https://www.catholicculture.org/news/headlines/index.cfm?storyid=31663
Faculties for Marriages
Pope … Read the rest